Your 6 Biggest Mistakes in Retirement and How to Avoid Them
August 21, 2025
Avoiding mistakes as you prepare for retirement
Very few people deliberately walk into bad financial choices. Yet over the years, I have watched these common missteps quietly hide in plain sight or go unchallenged and threaten a secure retirement.
We have all been there. A moment of high emotion can push you into an impulsive decision.
A well-meaning family member, or a confident-sounding salesperson, can nudge you into a poor choice.
Or maybe you and your spouse avoid hard conversations about money.
The good news: all of this can be prevented. Find out if any of these six mistakes are poised to derail your retirement plan so you can steer clear of potential trouble.
1. Retiring Too Early
After decades in the same career, the idea of walking out on your final day into freedom and unlimited leisure time seems like a golden milestone to be celebrated.
But retirement is a significant life change that brings new challenges.
Some fight boredom and feel unsettled when not working. The loss of daily structure, purpose, and workplace camaraderie can catch you off guard.
I often ask clients, “Who are you going to spend time with?” If your friends or spouse are still working, early retirement can be lonely. Make sure you are retiring towards something, not just away from something.
The financial reality can also feel harsh. A regular paycheck can cover impulse purchases, but a fixed income may not. Also, retiring at 50 could mean your savings must last 40 years. In a high-inflation environment, that pressure compounds quickly. Remember that retiring early also means drawing on investments earlier, leaving less time for growth.
2. Not Saving Enough
I see three types of people arrive at retirement underprepared:
- those who truly could not save
- those who could have saved but did not
- and those who saved but spent just as quickly.
If you are still earning, act now and determine if you can increase your savings. Reduce spending.
Avoid “lifestyle inflation,” where your expenses rise to match your income and you wonder where your money has gone each month. Expenses can creep up with small acts of frivolity or neglect.
Are shopping deliveries you forgot about arriving each week? Do you have duplicate streaming services? Has shopping or treating yourself to restaurant meals become your go-to entertainment?
How do you know if you are saving enough for retirement? The answer is different for everyone. Start with your expectations. What is your ability to save? You may want to work with an advisor to help you arrive at a realistic goal.
3. Overconfidence in Do-It-Yourself Investing
Technology makes it easy to place trades, but reams of unfiltered information designed to influence you are not the same as insight. There are many articles discussing how do-it-yourself investing has not worked.
For the majority of your investing, always balance the two goals of growth and protection. Understand all risks, and make sure you have a clear reason behind every decision. Without that, a rising market can lure you in, and a falling one can wipe you out.
4. Nostalgic Feelings About Your Big Family Home
Should you stay living in the home where you raised your kids in your retirement?
Emotional attachment to a home can drain your resources. I worked with a retired couple living in a 4,000-square-foot house. Taxes, utilities, and repairs were bleeding their savings. They were asset-rich but cash-poor, spending their retirement fund to keep a house that no longer served them.
My advice is that downsizing usually provides freedom. It can free up capital, reduce upkeep, and give you flexibility. Your family will not stop visiting because the dining room is smaller. Focus on your financial well-being.
5. Following Untested Advice
Confidence is not the same as competence. I have seen retirees take advice from people with something to sell or from influencers with no accountability for the outcome.
If you are receiving advice, and the recommendations cannot be explained or you do not understand them, you should ask questions. Don’t be afraid to say no.
How can you tell if you are getting the right retirement advice? I tell clients to look for clarity and the chance to ask questions. Is there enough time for a calm discussion? Is there confusing jargon or plain language? Is there a sensible plan that can be explained in simple terms, and is there evidence that it has been tailored to their needs or life changes, or is it generic and static?
You should not accept hype and big promises. You should be looking for peace of mind.
6. No Budget
Some retirees do not know what their budget is. They do not track spending, do not project future income, and live by instinct. Or they fear conflict and do not collaborate with their partner to agree on spending or saving.
A basic plan is simple: know your expenses, know your income sources, review two or three times a year, and adjust as needed.
Final Thought
Take a straightforward approach: save more, set targets, spend with purpose, and be honest about your habits.
If something feels off about a financial offer, or pressure behind a decision, product, or promise, trust your instincts. Ask questions.
You want someone who cares as much about your retirement as you do.
You do not have to be perfect to retire well, but you can ask yourself these questions:
- Am I timing my retirement correctly for my savings to last?
- Am I saving enough each year to meet my retirement goals?
- Is there a reason to downsize my home?
- Am I satisfied with my financial advice, and is the advice in my best interest?
Do I know my income and expenses in retirement? Do I have a budget? Do I have a plan?






